The Worse thing that I went through with my hair, of the many things, happened to be the defining moment in my life where I decided to learn how to do my own hair. Back in 1999 we went on a family vacation to Florida and we decided that we should take a picture of all of the grandkids and great grandkids as a gift to my Japanese Grandmommy before she returned to Tokyo.  Now from my experience I have learned that major hair decisions should not be made at the last minute and definitely there should also be caution in chosing a stylist and this just happens to be my personal as well as professional opinion Well anyways, getting back to the story, the stylist who gave me a "trim" cut my hair that once fell halfway down my back up to my ears. And to top it off, she told me that the assymetrical look was "in", when I questioned her about the left side being longer than the right. I really wasn't ready for a bob but I got one. As for the photo, a picture says a thousand words!